Budget... ....Saving?

Budget... or ....Saving, these are the thoughts pondering in my mind.
Saving money for wedding... cut down in shopping, clothes, shoes, bags (my fave) n any luxury expenses /indulgences.
or go for Budget wedding.. no banquet (just a simple gathering of families) / no album?? photography/ video, no wedding gown just a simple rom? Save for the new hse, hope it can come faster or til we saved enough for renvo?
both are concerned for money... required hard work n effort.
Tons n tons of money.